Attracting someone's attention is really about applying the science of body language. One essential thing that you must do when talking ...
Attracting someone's attention is really about applying the science of body language. One essential thing that you must do when talking to a hot prospect you are interested in is to flirt with her. Even the most subtle movements can be considered a form of flirting, all it takes is confidence. Here are some suggestions that you should follow.
Smile – This is probably the easiest form of flirting. It brings out your positivity and you are indicating that you are interested to the person you are talking with. But unlike a “regular”smile, a “flirty” smile should be wider than you are used to. Practice your smile in the mirror and check how to smile without looking too scary.
Get caught looking at her – It may seem to be something shy guys tend to do, but looking away can be flirty. If you want to know to let her know you are interested, just look at her face. When she catches you looking, smile, hold eye contact for a moment, then look away.
Wave a little – Another way of flirting if you get caught looking at a hot girl is to give a little wave. Move your hand a little and smile. It's saying “hello” in a non-intrusive yet very flirty manner.
Wink – Giving a quick and sweet wink can be done with someone from across the room, or at someone during a conversation. However, it is best not to wink excessively. If she says or does something she might view as embarrassing, you can give out a wink as a way of sharing a little moment for just the two of you.
Holding eye contact – While you are conversing with her, you want to be sure to have eye contact at least some of the time. Looking—not staring— at each other's eyes can make a brief, yet intimate moment between the two of you.
Touch lightly – You can touch your prospect without harassing the girl. This can be as simple as placing your hand lightly on her hand for a moment, or touching her back for a moment as you walk to a table to sit down. Touching is actually a good indicator to know if the girl is interested
to you: if she pulls away, then she could either be not interested or just not wanting to go on a deeper level yet.
Check her body out – Checking out her body must be done properly. The goal is for you new friend to feel complimented that you noticed her fabulous body, not seen as some piece of meat. Do this by making eye contact, then passing your eyes down for a nano-second, and then back to
her eyes. However, do not do this too often in a single conversation.
Do the “goodbye compliment” – If you are really shy to approach a girl, you could simply go near her before you leave and say something like, “Hi, I have to go now, but before I did, I really wanted to let you know that you have a really great smile, and I noticed that. I wish I had more time to spend with you, but I have to go.” After doing your “goodbye compliment,” leave as soon as possible even if the girl wants you to stay some more. This allows you to build your confidence in approaching women without having to take the risk of rejection. If the girl seems interested to you, ask for her phone number.
Know when to stop – Remember to stop flirting while it is still fun. Flirting too often during a conversation may make you appear as cheesy. If you stop flirting on a high point, your new friend may feel good when thinking of you, and want to see you again.
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